By Sanjay Choubey · Updated 14 November 2026
Signs it may be time to talk to someone
- The same argument keeps coming back
- You have stopped talking about what really matters
- Family or in-law friction is affecting the marriage
- You are unsure about a marriage decision before committing
- You are thinking about separation but are not sure
What counselling can and cannot do
Counselling helps a couple see the pattern underneath the conflict: the differences in temperament and expectation that keep causing the same fights. Once both people see it clearly, it becomes easier to respond differently.
It is not a magic fix, and no honest counsellor can promise a result. It works best when both people are willing to listen.
What a session with Sanjay Choubey looks like
Sanjay Choubey has 30+ years of counselling experience. Using his Colour Science method, he reads each person's nature and temperament, explains where the friction comes from, and gives practical guidance on the way forward.
Sessions are one hour. Pre-marriage compatibility, recurring conflict, delayed marriage, in-law friction and separation are all common reasons couples come to him.